If you just want to fit in with everyone and go with the flow, discipleship probably is not going to work for you. Disciples of Yeshua are consistently part of the minority and outside the concensus of social norms. Why is that? Here's a quick teaching on the concept of "the Fear of the LORD" and how God punishes the wicked by water and fire.
Let him learn how God punished the wicked by water and fire and glorified the righteous in each generation: I mean Seth, Enosh, Enoch, Noah, Abraham and his kin, Melchizedek, Job, Moses, both Joshua and Caleb, Phinehas the priest, and the holy ones in each generation. (Apostolic Constitutions)